Girls, you are so powerful, dammit - I admit defeat

[StephMoxley]

The other day, I was at a bar with some friends. One of them had brought along a very sexy single girl and she was wearing a fantastic outfit. She was clearly onto something.

Now I didn't feel targetted or a candidate per say, but playing is always fun. After a few drinks, this girl started giving out signals, to some of the guys.

One signal was extremely subtle and it made me realize how powerful women really are. It was simple and went like this:

-she stood up straight with a drink in her hand
-brings the glass to her mouth and drinks
-while she drinks she does two things:

(1) she looks you straight in the eyes, but only a fraction of a second
(2) while she does so, she threw her shoulders back so her breasts moved forward, and at the same time she pushed her booty back -- but everything just a millimeter! Almost unnoticeable. Only the person at who she looks would notice it.

So simple and quick and subtle, but super-powerful. I immediately felt my hormones pumping.

Women have the capacity to control men entirely on the sexual agenda. Do they realize this??!! It's incredible! And do they do it consciously or is it subconscious?

 

[Ashera]

They don't have that ability, yes of course they can control anyone who's a slave to her-his libido... But some of us do have a will besides that...

 

[furball123]

Dude you were drinking, everyone plays games when they're drinking, girls and guys, its nothing phenomenal.

 

[Tahneej]

you have way to much time on your hands to be noticing all of that

 

[KissYourNosie]

Zoom, have you tried thinking in terms of EMpowerment rather than POWER "over" something or someone? your paradigm seems to be very much one of power and "survival of the fittest". it's a little narrow and you're missing out on so much.

Maybe you should have a read about integral theory and spiral dynamics. Life isn't as static and one-dimensional as you seem to think.


But heck you seem like a horny lad so can be forgiven.

 

[padmini]

Powers of seduction are totally dependent on the person not the sex. Men can be super seductive while some women can be an embarressment.

 

[MiSS iNDEPENDANT bro]

Every thought you pose we'll be happy to oppose.

Welcome to the board, Zoom.

 

[Neidy]

 

[highperactive]

Women

Can't live with them
Pass the beer nuts

(Norm Peterson, Cheers)

 

[dixonrs]

Norm was the man. What kind of nuts would you like, Papa?

Ok, don't answer that.

 

[flozrockz]

evil laugh...of course we realize it. Resistance is futile, you're at our mercy. :tongue::

Serious answer...FUKUMAN is right, sexy isn't gender-specific. God help me, I've met some very seductive men. :love:

As far as do women realize most men are vulnerable to manipulation-by-seduction? Sure we do. Just like men realize most women are vulnerable to manipulation-by-emotion. We're all in the game, playing the cards we were dealt.

Oh, and welcome to the board.

 

[lisamythical]

I'm thinking that everyone has that sort of power over someone. This woman you speak of, may have had that impact on you, where it may not have worked on me. Another woman maybe, with the certain things she does and the way she looks at me. May seduce me into her grasp, by following some formula of behavior which would only work on a select few.

I can seduce a girl I work with, and according to her reaction I am very powerful, but her friend is ironclad and electromagnetically force fielded against my charms, and will never submit even if I was the last man on earth.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Amen !

 

[samra]

Looks that way and thank you, Art Mann.

 

[Tiara A]

I think the issue here is not that she had the power, but she had the power over you. You were obviously into her therefore just about anything she did could be perceived as a come on to you. Maybe she was just straightening herself to pour the drink down easier? Like maybe she leaned over the table to reach for something and flashed you her cleavage...maybe she was just leaning?

As freud used to say: sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.........

(which is why there is so much trouble between men and women....men speak, when send "signals" then ask, why didn't you pick up on them?)

 

[Uncannyxman]

That was before Monica :bad:

 

[Pompal 09.]

What ever happened to her?.

 

[Pixistiks]

lol who cares?

 

[Good gone girl]

She found a bigger cigar.

 

[Nan Chen]

I think when you are the mood for a good F**k any signal catches your eyes......or even scent.....:666:
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