My stepdad loves to give me massages, do you guys think that he maybe gay?

[BIG_Jason]

Ok so I'm 15 and I live with my stepdad who is 37 and he's never had a girlfriend since I've been living with him for the past six years, he's never ever talked about girls with me or anything. So sometimes he'll take off my shirt and rub lotion on my back and he'll massage my back and my arms, it feels really good. But he's never touched me before, he gives me massages atleast like two times a week. Sometimes he'll take off my pants too and will rub lotion all over my legs, so what do you guys think? Please, no rude comments*

 

[mixermatt2002]

to be honest.. YES! this wrong the butt head should be reported, and where is your mom? One- put a stop to it now!!!!!!!! Go home to your mom, and once you get home.. tell her what happend, fail charges on him.. again this just wrong..

 

[nysenutz]

I find it strange that you are living with your step dad. Where is your mother?
Who knows if he is gay or not. There are a couple of scenarios here.
1. He genuinely cares for you and likes to make you feel good.
2. He enjoys giving you massages.
3. (And this is what I am really thinking), He may be gay, but as least has the decency not to 'touch' you because you are under age. Do you notice if he gets an erection while massaging? That would be a give away, wouldn't it? Perhaps he is 'grooming' you for when you are old enough. Up to this stage, he has done nothing illegal.
If you enjoy it, let him continue, if not, ask him to stop.
Good luck.

 

[The orginal Stay with me]

Okay sorry to say this but it isnt right. I was sexually abused by my step dad but i am a girl. It started off with massages from 8 - 12 and then bang the minute i turned 13... well. So please. Either get out of there cause he could be leading up to that. Tell him to back off cause usually wen doing that they only have one intention in mind.