Why bother making appointments??

[retrocamcord00]

Hey guys,
A rookie question...

I've been noticing something that made me scratch my chin lately. I have just barely joined the game, so bear with me.

How reliable is it to make an appointment to see an mpa really?? For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!
if it happens here and there, I understand, we're all human beings. But I literally had it happen to me twice in a row, same week, and once last month. Besides, it's my fucking gas money $$$ and, well... my time! One will say, two hairs in a soup is too many!

Is it the tendency?

Appreciate your feedback!

 

[not impressed]

Hey guys,
A rookie question...

I've been noticing something that made me scratch my chin lately. I have just barely joined the game, so bear with me.

How reliable is it to make an appointment to see an mpa really?? For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!
if it happens here and there, I understand, we're all human beings. But I literally had it happen to me twice in a row, same week, and once last month. Besides, it's my fucking gas money $$$ and, well... my time! One will say, two hairs in a soup is too many!

Is it the tendency?

Appreciate your feedback!

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It’s never guaranteed , just walk in , take your chances, I’ve been fucked up the ass many times regarding appointments, it really means nothing, if they have a walk in 15 minutes before you get there , walk in comes first , just my experience

 

[johnnyonthespot]

Hey guys,
A rookie question...

I've been noticing something that made me scratch my chin lately. I have just barely joined the game, so bear with me.

How reliable is it to make an appointment to see an mpa really?? For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!
if it happens here and there, I understand, we're all human beings. But I literally had it happen to me twice in a row, same week, and once last month. Besides, it's my fucking gas money $$$ and, well... my time! One will say, two hairs in a soup is too many!

Is it the tendency?

Appreciate your feedback!

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By all accounts, it happens a lot and it's definitely not cool. I've had it happen only a few times - sometimes it's bad time management on the MPA's part, sometimes it's bad booking. At most, though, it's meant a 15 minute wait, or on occasion a pinch hitter helping pass the time until the lady was free. I think I've been lucky though that I've never straight out had my time slot given away.

People here seem to just chalk it up to being part of the game. Sucks, but there it is.

 

[cupcrazy]

some spas are notorious for not fullfilling appointments especially asian spas. their goals are to fill as many appointments as possible. i booked an appointment on the day before and the girl didn't even show up. wtf.

 

[medister22]

Ok .
there are a few things that you need to know and remember in this hobby .

They generally dont give a flying fuck about you . Or your gas money . And most importantly - your time .

You tip them well if you like their service . You ‘re calm when they give you shit . You don ‘t let them manipulate you . You are always respectful to them no matter what . They are there for $$ . Anything else is a bonus

Knowing aall that I dont make appointments anymore , I just walk in .
I either stay or walk out . When they screwed my appointments in the past I always walked out and always let the manager know . Trust me , it worked . I have no time for bullshit

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Depends on the place. If there is an actual front desk/reception your chances of an appointment working go up. At most you wait 15-25 minutes. Any other holistic place where the next girl up just grabs whoever strolls in? You're lucky if the person on the other end of the phone wrote anything down when you set your "appointment".

But there's always the situations where you find out the hard way that the girl you like to see enjoys seeing someone else more than you, because they can and will take the walk-in guy who gives her more money right over your appointed time.

 

[retrocamcord00]

some spas are notorious for not fullfilling appointments especially asian spas. their goals are to fill as many appointments as possible. i booked an appointment on the day before and the girl didn't even show up. wtf.

Yes, these were all asian spas!

 

[medister22]

It’s never guaranteed , just walk in , take your chances, I’ve been fucked up the ass many times regarding appointments, it really means nothing, if they have a walk in 15 minutes before you get there , walk in comes first , just my experience

Exactly

 

[retrocamcord00]

But there's always the situations where you find out the hard way that the girl you like to see enjoys seeing someone else more than you, because they can and will take the walk-in guy who gives her more money right over your appointed time.

That makes sence! But in the long run, that way she can lose a regular customer...

 

[medister22]

That makes sence! But in the long run, that way she can lose a regular customer...

That ‘s the thing !!
They don ‘t give a damn . She knows there will be other regular customers !!. Sorry bro , but you ‘re not that special to her unless you have more dough than that other dude !

 

[Bobbadoo]

Yes, these were all asian spas!

Asian spas?

I don't set appointments there. No offence to anyone. In my experience, in other than a few occasions when I knew a couple of ladies for many years, it pretty much never worked. You are better off being spontaneous and just test your luck walking in.

 

[Bobbadoo]

Ok .
there are a few things that you need to know and remember in this hobby .

They generally dont give a flying fuck about you . Or your gas money . And most importantly - your time .

You tip them well if you like their service . You ‘re calm when they give you shit . You don ‘t let them manipulate you . You are always respectful to them no matter what . They are there for $$ . Anything else is a bonus

Knowing aall that I dont make appointments anymore , I just walk in .
I either stay or walk out . When they screwed my appointments in the past I always walked out and always let the manager know . Trust me , it worked . I have no time for bullshit

It's a sleazy game where your jizz is your trophy

 

[Bobbadoo]

That makes sence! But in the long run, that way she can lose a regular customer...

You lost your gas money and your time. Who cares who/what she lost in the long run?
Her choice is not your problem.

 

[Derick]

This has happen to me couple of times at suko , make appointment call when 15 minutes away everything is good I show up and they give the lady I had the appointment with to someone else. When I ask them about this I give bs story, so I stop going

 

[Poonhound]

This can go both ways, if you book an appointment at Premier Spas and don't show up, you will get blocked, because the girl waited for you.

The difference at premier though is I’ve never made an appointment and showed up to find out it was given away. They honour there appointments

 

[sugar3d]

Hmm

- pick more professional MPs
- go at a less busy time
- book / lock in your app 1-2 hours before


I have yet to run into my appointment being given away or not honoured.

 

[cupcrazy]

Hmm

- pick more professional MPs
- go at a less busy time
- book / lock in your app 1-2 hours before


I have yet to run into my appointment being given away or not honoured.

It is hard to say when the spa is slow. Everyday is different. However spas are generally slow on holidays like yesterday

 

[Asian Oracle]

Asian MP's are all, without exception, fly by night operations. Higher end spas will honour appointments, ish, but the massage game is one of disappointments and ego crushing, so get used to never being satisfied. As I mentioned in another thread, the MP who leaves you in the middle of the massage to go situate a new punter who walks in the door should be treated with full scorn and you should walk out.

The MP's are also so frequently manipulated and disappointment by us men, they play the same game of doing what's best for their bottom line, rather than good manners or respecting you.

We get what we tolerate in this game, and in the end, men are victims of their dicks, so propriety goes out the window.

 

[tasteyou69]

Hey guys,
A rookie question...

I've been noticing something that made me scratch my chin lately. I have just barely joined the game, so bear with me.

How reliable is it to make an appointment to see an mpa really?? For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!
if it happens here and there, I understand, we're all human beings. But I literally had it happen to me twice in a row, same week, and once last month. Besides, it's my fucking gas money $$$ and, well... my time! One will say, two hairs in a soup is too many!

Is it the tendency?
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Appreciate your feedback!

The only spas that I frequent are the one and two lady Asian spas in Scarborough and Markham. For the most part business is slow. If someone shows up just prior to your appointment time and arrival they will definitely get served first. Especially if you are an unknown client they have no idea if you will show up [ frequent no- shows ] and even if they are sure that you will they probably will take the first one to appear . That is just reality.

This is what I have found being a frequent repeater - many of the excellent providers that I see are only too happy to come in before the scheduled opening time for me [ in fact many of them even suggest that ]- they know that I will show up and they like that we are less likely to be interrupted by newly arriving clients. This virtually assumes me of being first and also getting my requested time. Having said that not everyone can plan in advance and can come before the opening.

 

[Markhammon15]

It's annoying af at AMPs but they obviously want to maximize the $ and take the walk in. That's why I prefer the Kijiji massage, it's hit and miss but at least they honor my appointment time.