There are lots of men that love erotic massage. It is different than using your hand. Using your own hand is only a functional release.
If you go to the right person, she will give you a 45 minute massage that will make you feel like jello. Then she will take her naked body and slide it on your body, slippery, erotic, oily fun. Some men have an orgasm during the body slide. If you make it through the body slide, then there is a silky hand release, using really nice oil, both hands, lots of eye contact, dirty talking if you prefer. You can touch and play with breasts. The mood is romantic in a private condo, usually Al Green on the stereo, but I have other choices. All for half the price of full service. This is the way my massage sessions go. Depending on other providers, experience and price may differ.
I am not really advertising (well maybe a little). My main intention is to explain a little more why erotic massage is so popular, and explain the difference between your hand and a magazine, and a real live woman that looks like a porn star with a down to earth attitude, creating and building the sensation for you.
How can you possibly do all that by yourself