GF in Shenzhen -what do you think about it?

[candy- capped]

Why not ask her which hotel she prefers, and then simply arrange for 1 suite to share. Better yet, you could always hedge your bets a bit and ask her, "Would you prefer to have 2 rooms or share a large suite". If she says get 2 rooms, then figure a way to cancel before then... unless you like being her personal ATM.

IF you are still not sure, then I'd arrange to not have the time to visit Macau with her, and go out to dinner and drinking in LKF or SoHo one Saturday night instead. I'd STRONGLY suggest that you get a room for that night at the Lan Kwai Fong Hotel -- to make your potential stumble back much easier for both of you. ALL girls want to check out this cool hotel, so perhaps arrange to meet her at the restaurant or elsewhere, tell her you are staying there, drink a lot together, and I BET if she is interested she will want to check out your nearby hotel. I would wait to do any of this until she no longer works for your vendor.

CHEERS!

 

[eternalnirvana999]

No, She does not speak english. That is the problem. I speak just a little Putungua to get by.
I do not want a call girl as Gf.

 

[susudio]

So what did you tell her? Does she speak English? I love an opportunist

 

[Bumble]

I sense that you want an argument....live and let live, David....Different people and different opinions make the world an interesting place to live...

 

[Missus Fuchs]

PLABOY !!!!!!!!!

I pay for sex !!!!!
Not for conversation.

Do you get it ???

For talking I have my friends.[/QUOTE]

PLABOY - You can have a good fuck and a good conversation if you're gay....well, are you a queer?

You just don't seem to get it PLABOY, young girls are for fucking but having a good conversation with them is what men do to get them into bed to fuck them....get it? Just let her talk about herself all night long and you don't have to say shit, just shit there and look at her flap her gums and just pretend you're interested in her "mind" which we are not, once we get them into the sack, fuck her real good and once you're done, give her the boot! This case is closed.

 

[loveee <3]

Go for it!!!!

 

[Ships Ahoy]

What;s wrong with a good fuck and good conversation??[/QUOTE]

PLABOY !!!!!!!!!

I pay for sex !!!!!
Not for conversation.

Do you get it ???

For talking I have my friends.

 

[freebienutter]

This girl wanted to be my GF in shenzhen.
Nice 18 year old with killer stand up boobs.
Very tall girl.

 

[CourtStar94]

OK. I'll let you know.

Regards

 

[Jamal of Babylon]

Mr. D, I agree and disagree in part to your response. I agree that being serious with someone does not nessarily mean that it will the greatest fuck of your life. I never said that. What I did say was that sex will be more "fulfilling" and thus the phrase, "making love." Corny as it may sound. True, I had a lot of girls that fucked my brains out compared to some of my old gf's. However, sex is only one part of a relationship, albeit, a big part.

When people decide to get serious they usually entertain the thought, at some point in time, about marriage if that person is "the right one." Being a couple is only a test run to see if you can stand each other for the long haul. Guys go through numerous gfs before settling down and visa versa.

A few of my buddies who are married do partake in P4P. Right or wrong, it is their choice. It is not because they do not love their wives any less or that their mistresses or P4P's are the ultimate fuck. They stray because they do not get it anymore or as often as they like.

Of my friends, race or nationality makes no difference. It is the dynamics of their marriage that changed their sex lives.... i.e., kids and the home. It is no longer the guy and girl having a romantic evening after they get home from work. Rather, it is the wife waking-up early, making lunch, waking up the kids, shuffling them to school, going grocery shopping, picking up the kids, taking them to sports or other activities, girl/boy scouts, and coming home to cook and clean the house. Then the guy comes home from a long day at work, stress-out, wanting to relax and unwind. (sex is a great relaxer). After hinting to the wife that he is horny, the wife goes on as to how she has to help the kids with homework, clean them up and get them ready for bed. By the end of the day wifey is either too tired or not in the mood. Hence, mistresses and P4P.

Mr. D, we just have a different spin on the same things.

 

[Ajith]

When you know the exact dates pm me.

 

[moosaidthebrit]

No , I'm not Caucasian. European , so I hope there shell be no problem
to negotiaye with mamasan. I'm not from Krakow but its quite close to a place of my residence. Just about 50 miles away. The exact date of my flight
is still unknown but I thing I'll be there just after Olympic games.
Maybe we could meet? Let me know..

Regards

 

[thoughts]

Asiatraveller - Well, the older a women gets, her stocks drops significantly. And the older a man gets his stocks will rise and rise. So to most men it all comes down to a good fuck in the sack Dinner with the girl, wine and dine, shopping with her, paying for everything to make her happy....in the end we men want something in return for all that money spend on her.....a really really good fuck and in reality most 28 year old educated Chinese women will not fit this requirement. Anyone disagree?

 

[krascow_jr]

Sex and Love are two different things. Most men i know "love" their wives but they go out for P4P. This to me is immoral and immature but that's another subject. Getting serious with a girl does not equal a great fuck in the sack...that's why most married men have mistresses and they go out for P4P. This sounds like rookie/newbie stuff, guys that don't have game say things like this.

Most of the time, for the female getting serious with a guy does equate to a marriage....that's what most selfish girls want. Logically speaking why the hell would you want to be in a serious relationship with a girl that doesn't like to have sex? Dumb that bitch and find a girl who does. I rather be alone and go mongering all my life than to be with a women that doesn't enjoy having sex....these are mostly the educated types...sorry Logizman.

 

[Cardaba]

I'll be there also in September. I can speak some Mandarin and Cantonese and i already have 3 girlfriends waiting for me at Queen's Spa...they all work for Queens Most Chinese people in Shenzhen can't speak basic English. If you're Caucasian then you'll have problems with negotiating with the mamsans. I know a place where you can get a pretty good massage and a handjob and the girls there are young and beautiful. What dates in September? Are you from Krakow, Poland?

 

[Scarlette Starr]

When p4p then sure, go for the 18 year old (all things being equal) and the younger girl is pretty or better. Absolutely. I'd be following Mr.David all the way there.

My main point is that being 28 is no reason to reject a Chinese girl, especially if the is accommodating, friendly etc.

I'm hoping you get good conversation *and* a good fuck from your trip! Then, perhaps you can spend a few extra days in Guangdong and see the sights suggested on this forum after your friend has gone home

 

[Tony]

What a brutal you are!! No sence of a romantic feeling !!

OK , just kidding. Well , during my last visit in Shenzhen I was extremely
busy. Returning back from the fairs to my hotel , I was tired like a 'dead
rat'. Any advices where and how can I get p4p in Shenzhen?
I'll be there again August/September.

Thks in advance

 

[Iron Rabbi]

Yeah, I agree w/ you. If just want to have sex. Why waste time? Just go get one. Nothing is free anyway. Pay and out and hurt no one!

 

[WishYouWereHere]

Logiz, sounds like you are really into this girl. If both of you really connect, then maybe you might be thinking of getting serious with her. If that is the case, then sex will be more fulfilling that P4P. As you know, being serious with someone as a girlfriend does not equate to marriage. Go for it and see what develops.

 

[Ginger Billy]

Hi Mr. David ,

Yeah , you could be wright. You've mentioned about other possibilities in Shenzhen. In fact , there is a lot of pretty young chicks over there.

But who is who? Someone walking down the street , smomeone sitting
in a hotel lobby? What should I avoid in order not to be scamed?
Another problem is the language. Not so many people speak english there.

I've found the escort agency :

http://www.escort-china.net/shenzhen.htm

Are this prices acceptable or should I negotiate? I'd be glad to hear your opinion about it.

Regards