Need Advice...Crush on MPA...?

[krayjee]

Rule #1: Learn from your mistakes .

Rule #2 don’t make them again.

I don't think we will learn no matter how many times we screwed up. Its' an addiction. A serious one. I woke up with wood this morning and all I think about was who should I see today. Golf season is almost over and I might fall in love again...lol.
All we can do is train our mind not to get attach to anyone. Not that easy if you ran into the right girl. Having 2-3 fav girls at the same time helps a lot. Hanging out with them on their day off is something I enjoy and gave me the feeling I have a real girlfriend. My problem is I don't want a real girlfriend, I love my freedom, go see whoever I want when I want, all I want is a FWB. I already had 2 this yr but lasted only a few months cuz one was looking for marriage for her PR status.. I found another one again recently and she is very open from the very beginning . All she wanted was to hang out once in a while on her day off for dinner, movies and such. This one is a bit too easy for me and keep on telling me she likes me a lot since day one. May be she might be saying these to a few other guys as well. On our second date she stayed at my place till 1 am. I was afraid she might stay overnight. Thank God she didn't.

 

[TheWhiteShadow]

I don't think we will learn no matter how many times we screwed up. Its' an addiction. A serious one. I woke up with wood this morning and all I think about was who should I see today. Golf season is almost over and I might fall in love again...lol.
All we can do is train our mind not to get attach to anyone. Not that easy if you ran into the right girl. Having 2-3 fav girls at the same time helps a lot. Hanging out with them on their day off is something I enjoy and gave me the feeling I have a real girlfriend. My problem is I don't want a real girlfriend, I love my freedom, go see whoever I want when I want, all I want is a FWB. I already had 2 this yr but lasted only a few months cuz one was looking for marriage for her PR status.. I found another one again recently and she is very open from the very beginning . All she wanted was to hang out once in a while on her day off for dinner, movies and such. This one is a bit too easy for me and keep on telling me she likes me a lot since day one. May be she might be saying these to a few other guys as well. On our second date she stayed at my place till 1 am. I was afraid she might stay overnight. Thank God she didn't.

I’m cool with just having a spa girlfriend. Treat me like your boyfriend at the spa, and I’m satisfied. I never think or care what she’s doing with others. If she makes me feel good that’s all that matters.

 

[Deleted member 99433]

So...when I first started this hobby I swore to myself to not fall for any of the girls that I see and I have seen quite a few since I started. I created a thread awhile ago about conversion and how I would like to go down the rabbit hole and become friends with MPAs. I received numbers from girls but never acted or actually contacted them back or went back to see them again just cause the girls that actually offered me their number, I wasnt really too attracted to them, though they werent bad looking. So fast forward to now and a few weeks to a month ago I see this MPA (I wont name where I saw this girl or name the girl) but dam I think I have a crush on the girl... which I have seen now a hand full of times. Call me an idiot and say what you may but dam I feel what I feel, I know everyone is going to say that the women just want your money and all that which I dont disagree with but dam I am stumped here...

This MPA did offer their number to me the first time I visited them to visit them at another location that they work at but I guess I was in a hurry and didnt take down their number. Since the first visit they havent offered me their number or anything again. I guess Im just wondering and need some serious advice is there a chance to get her number and hang out outside her place of work? For some reason I get the butterflies around her and I dont know really how to proceed with this? Should I just ask her out right for her number and if she wants to grab some drinks or something sometime? I dont want to make this awkward for either of us either... Also a question for guys who get the girls number just to see them again or at another location, is everything you talk about just transactional and all business?

These woman are very damaged and borderline psychotic with antisocial tendencies. Most have drug issues. Just remember the cautionary tale of picking up a ho at the club — they always go psycho on you. These mpas are near the bottom rungs of whoring.

You’re a man bro, your bigger than women like this.

 

[kittyhound69]

No they don’t, not the ones I’ve seen . Just some drinks at karaoke. Max. And maybe some magiong Go get religion will you

 

[cupcrazy]

When I find a girl I like, I’m the opposite

For the first time ever, I saw one girl 3 times last week…

You must be loaded!

 

[xtc27]

No they don’t, not the ones I’ve seen . Just some drinks at karaoke. Max. And maybe some magiong Go get religion will you

Easily 50% of hobbyists‘d b male SWs if women paid them 4 sex… so not surprising 2me how normal many of them are… esp semilegit mpas… theyre more like us than other women are, who just use sex 2 manipulate…

 

[daty869]

Next time you find a MPA remembering specific details about you, ask her if she keeps notes and watch how she responds.

These girls see A LOT of men, there's no way for them to remember everything about you, so most usually keep notes on their clients - mainly just the regulars.

I had a fairly regular AMP (2 x month) for a few years tell me recently “I haven’t seen you since 8pm on June 22nd, did you forget about me?”. She now hasn’t seen me since July 14th……

 

[daty869]

I’m cool with just having a spa girlfriend. Treat me like your boyfriend at the spa, and I’m satisfied. I never think or care what she’s doing with others. If she makes me feel good that’s all that matters.

We could all benefit from these wise words, I used to be jealous when I would call for the last appointment on a Saturday night and it was already booked. Now I just pick another number, repeat as necessary.