Need advice

[LostInnocence]

Oh, I thought you were afraid to be with someone who was humongous, which would of course eliminate me and 90% of the guys on this board.

 

[RyanWater]

Oh, I thought you were afraid to be with someone who was humongous, which would of course eliminate me and 90% of the guys on this board.

I guess I fall in the other 10%

 

[JimiNY]

I would run as it will drive you crazy thinking about what she is doing. I can also go see her and report back

That's hilarious

 

[Johnny O]

That's hilarious

Here is an update and after a few long talks and stiff drinks we have decided to part ways. She needs to maintain her line of work for financial reasons and will not be leaving the biz at this time and, I cannot be with someone in that line of work knowing what is or what is not happening behind closed doors.. The threads and people's experiences don't lie about the odds of success no matter how much you love an MPA or think you can handle being in a relationship with one.

 

[Roman]

Thanks for the update on this situation. It must have been hard parting ways with her because I know you really liked her.
It really needed a long discussion to determine if you wanted to stay with her.
I know I couldn't have a relationship with an MPA either.

 

[Johnny O]

It's just too hard to have normal relationship. There is already enough stress in life and don't need that added stress.

 

[Freshy1]

Thanks for sharing. Feel for ya

 

[Deleted member 62591]

I frequent an MPA who told me about a recent break up with her BF. From the sounds of it the guy was really struggling. If the guy knew what this girl was doing behind closed doors he would've exited voluntarily..

 

[Hangdai]

I'm so sorry to hear that it didn't work out between the two of you, Johnny O.

I was hoping your relationship would have been a success.

Al Cohol

Better to suffer through a bit of pain now, then to try to follow your heart and make it work, just to have it fail even worse later on.

You did the right thing, it’s not in men’s nature to share the love of women, and this goes back to caveman times.

 

[topo112]

Decisions ... love or money! Mpas get into this kind of work cause they need to make tons of money for whatever reasons. Deep inside they know their love life will be full of drama or non-existent. Pimps may end up being their boyfriends since they benefit from their situation. I feel for mpas cause most are great people, if only guys could see the difference between sex as work and sex for love. I would have to pass, it would kill me hearing her moaning while another guy’s screwing her.

 

[Johnny O]

Decisions ... love or money! Mpas get into this kind of work cause they need to make tons of money for whatever reasons. Deep inside they know their love life will be full of drama or non-existent. Pimps may end up being their boyfriends since they benefit from their situation. I feel for mpas cause most are great people, if only guys could see the difference between sex as work and sex for love. I would have to pass, it would kill me hearing her moaning while another guy’s screwing her.

All I can say is that based on my experience with this woman she was wonderful, respectful, went out to watch movies , cooked togehter, she insisted on splitting costs for everything we did. Like some have said on here there are some MPAs that are amazing people and their work prevents them from having a serious relationship so let's at least show some respect for them as people.

 

[karlcox]

Where does she work and under what name? I’ll pay an undercover visit and let you know how concerned you should be.

 

[Johnny O]

karlcox,

No, let it be. He's made his decision. Move on and show some respect.

Al Cohol.

So here is a twist with what has happened. I received numerous texts and phone calls and the ex MPA said she can't continue doing what she is doing because all she can think about is the relationship we had and wants that back and has informed her spa that She is done. She does not want to live a double life anymore with her family and friends and wants me to go to California with her for 2weeks asap for a vacation to talk about a future .. does anyone think that she is serious long term or this might be a temporary thing? Feedback appreciated .

 

[ChubbyGuy]

So here is a twist with what has happened. I received numerous texts and phone calls and the ex MPA said she can't continue doing what she is doing because all she can think about is the relationship we had and wants that back and has informed her spa that She is done. She does not want to live a double life anymore with her family and friends and wants me to go to California with her for 2weeks asap for a vacation to talk about a future .. does anyone think that she is serious long term or this might be a temporary thing? Feedback appreciated .

If I was in your shoes, go for it!

If it's temp who cares, couples breakup all the time....

 

[Hangdai]

I think it happens a lot with women, as long as you can leave the past in the past, and she’s able to cope with a career change, why not.

I heard of this happening more than once before, ladies leave the spa once Mr.right comes along.

It’s looking promising for you, good luck.

 

[yelomonkey]

I'd go for it buddy. You have nothing to lose. Good luck to you.

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[itstherealthing]

I think I may have an idea who his girl is.....a very nice MPA at Flirt Finch is suddenly not on their schedule......her name started with an R
She was really great ....if she does not come back I will truly miss her.

 

[Mulva]

Johnny. Really? Coming on here looking for advice with such a serious matter?


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[Roman]

Good luck Johnny. I'm pulling for you.

 

[Mulva]

Yes myself as well. Go with your gut.


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