Poll Updated tip guidelines for 2025...take the poll

[Ambler]

The range presented sounds reasonable. The length of the session does need to be factored in.

For some massage stars, I tip the equivalent of the room fee just for that part of the visit, then add the typical service fee for service provided. At the minimum, massage only if done well deserves the equivalent of the RMT rate.

And like Flashman I tend to pay what is asked, but don't revisit if the ask is beyond reason. And I too like when a lady shows appreciation for a higher tip that she actually earned through effort, skill, and being fun and personable.

I visited JR 3 times over a period of 7 days and even tipped Cici the receptionist $20 after the last visit because she is so competent, direct, and pleasant. Should have seen her face, priceless!

 

[JimiNY]

More often than not I find the ones that are past their best before date wanting the higher end of the market rates. None of those are on my roster.

Ah yeah buddy but look at those with the experience , not to mention any names but I am sure names will be thrown around soon. You get some young first timers meeting those that some consider past the due date and be in heaven.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Ah yeah buddy but look at those with the experience , not to mention any names but I am sure names will be thrown around soon. You get some young first timers meeting those that some consider past the due date and be in heaven.

There’s always the exception. I’m talking comparable “service level” with a mummy tummy sagging boobs when the younger ones are happy with less.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

it’s been mentioned before. If the ymmv experiences like DFK or DATY happen on second or third visit I won’t pay a premium as these acts benefit the girl as much if not more. If she doesn’t want to do it, I’m cool with it. If it’s an extra I’m not interested.

 

[OG_funguy]

it’s been mentioned before. If the ymmv experiences like DFK or DATY happen on second or third visit I won’t pay a premium as these acts benefit the girl as much if not more. If she doesn’t want to do it, I’m cool with it. If it’s an extra I’m not interested.

The best approach is to have 'lower' mileage sessions when you see a new girl for the first time. Then once you get to know each other, you can slowly add services without paying too much more, if anything at all.

My problem lately is that I met some new girls, got further than I expected and then paid more because I didn't know her and didn't want to come across as a cheap ass. Of course, I'm stuck with these tip amounts if I continue to see her now...

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

The best approach is to have 'lower' mileage sessions when you see a new girl for the first time. Then once you get to know each other, you can slowly add services without paying too much more, if anything at all.

My problem lately is that I met some new girls, got further than I expected and then paid more because I didn't know her and didn't want to come across as a cheap ass. Of course, I'm stuck with these tip amounts if I continue to see her now...

Or the opposite can happen where if you pay on the lower end the cut down on what they do next time

 

[OG_funguy]

It looks good but it is greatly generic. So we may say your rate generally apply. However, you ignored the beauty of the face and body and age factors. Regardless what you or anybody say: the higher the beauty the higher the price. The spa visits follow the same general market ironclad rule: supply and demand. This means an MPA with a sexy body and beautiful face will get more customers. So, she can and will charge more. Sometimes, i was impressed with a beauty of an MPA so much that i paid twice the regular rates.

The same rule goes to rice in the market. You have an average rice price range then you have expensive rices too. I bring this up to prevent some of the customers to fight over some extra money while they may lose the chance to have the fun of their life.

You are right, these should be considered general guidelines, there are too many factors and permutations to get into that could result in the tips being up or down from what I posted...

 

[OG_funguy]

Or the opposite can happen where if you pay on the lower end the cut down on what they do next time

I don't mean being cheap, just sticking with market rates and let mileage slowly go up with repeat visits...

I agree that you don't want to come across as a cheapskate on your first visit...that's why if I like the girl, I usually give a little bit more than market just so she's happy to see me next time

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

The best approach is to have 'lower' mileage sessions when you see a new girl for the first time. Then once you get to know each other, you can slowly add services without paying too much more, if anything at all.

My problem lately is that I met some new girls, got further than I expected and then paid more because I didn't know her and didn't want to come across as a cheap ass. Of course, I'm stuck with these tip amounts if I continue to see her now...

More often than not with regards to kissing, I let them be the instigator.
Funny thing during Covid, girls would wear a mask and some would bring their face right next to mine. I’d pull down the mask and all hell would break loose. Damn the torpedoes!

 

[OG_funguy]

If I do DATY .. she must pay
Rest all seems to be pretty much the same ..
FS have not indulged in semis .. but bbbj for 100 is pretty common these days ..I accidentally pressed too high though

Guys please do not DM … you have to earn it .

You can change your vote...

 

[Frankhettergrow]

Anyone tipping over the suggested guidelines, henceforth, will be sent to Chinatown for a massage at 3am with no alcohol or condoms.

 

[Mr Shibari]

First, I want to say we've been pretty lucky in terms of room fees. For the most part, they haven't changed in close to 10 years (maybe more).

However, I have noticed tip amounts creeping higher. Customers have been paying more these days resulting in the girls expecting more.

Below is my take on the tip amounts (note: this is for semi-legit spas and is only the tips, room fees are extra, I'm assuming a 1hr session).

• Massage Only - $20
• Basic HJ, maybe some light outside touching - $40-50
• Basic HJ and topless - $50-60
• Completely nude while standing up - $70
• Nude Reverse (MPA gets naked and lets you massage her while she's lying down) - $80
• Basic body slide (MPA gets naked and slides her body against yours) - $80-90
• "Enhanced" body slide (same as above but may include some nice extras like Daty, DFK, Pussy Slide) - $90-100
• BS + BBBJ (I know we're talking semi-legit but I find this is becoming more prevalent) - $100-110
• BJ + FS (in case things get this far) - $130-$150

Thoughts? Do you guys agree?

Take the anonymous poll at the top!

I agree, these are acceptable rates. The higher $ range per service for exceptional effort. The problem is that many spa girls think they should get more than these rates well also giving subpar service. Your looks don’t make me want to tip you more. You should be well groomed and presentable working in this industry. It’s your attitude, skill and effort that determines the scale you will be compensated.
I’m not cheap, but I’m not a dummy either. Show me you deserve my hard earned money, show me you respect our business relationship, show me you take my session seriously and I’ll come back for years.