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[GuyIncognito]

vancouver i understand.. but how do you feel safe comfortable in mexico.. are you bilingual?

Some great times in CDMX(mexico city) but for vfm, columbia beats mexico in trems of price and beauty. Almost all massage places have FS. Find the girls on the local advertizement site. Best part comparied to Sourh east asia is staying within a hour or two of the time zone. A few words and translationapps is all that is needed. Not looking for a conversation

 

[Qster]

vancouver i understand.. but how do you feel safe comfortable in mexico.. are you bilingual?

Was in Cabo before Christmas 2023, went out every night, very safe, safer than downtown Edmonton. Near the resorts and cruise ships, police on every corner. Just don't be stupid and venture out of the protected area; no one can save you if you go into a dark alley. Use the police as your marker, when you stop seeing them at a corner, turnaround.

Dozens of "massage shops" within 10 minute walk of my resort on the beach, hundreds of ladies sitting in front looking for business, they all speak English, better than most of our semi-legit girls here. Prices were decent, it is $30-$40 for an hour of massage and around $100USD total after some negotiations for massage with FS. Always cheaper if you pay in USD vs. Pesos, not sure why. Prices are lower if you venture into downtown farther from the resorts but not worth the risk/taxi fare. Just avoid the strip joints, girls there ask for $300USD for FS but some of them are pretty hot.

My third night in Cabo, walked by this place right behind my resort, a couple of ladies in bikini tops were waving me in. Same shop, but you can find working girls wear bikini tops, and regular masseuses wear scrubs working side by side. During the day when the cruise crowds are in town, only the scrub wearers are up front. An night, the bikini wearers come out as well. I was about to walk away when I saw a young cutie in scrubs at the back so I asked for her. Really good English, chatted along the way. Sweettalked her into taking off her top and giving me a hj for $80; I gave her the $80 plus a $20 tip. I could have gotten FS from a different girl but this one was too cute. I went back the next day, told her it will be $100 again, she smiled and finished me with a bj. Sadly couldn't find her the rest of the week.

Bottomline, just use common sense, don't rent a car and drive through a jungle within cartel territory. As long as you stay near the resorts, perfectly safe.

 

[dicktracy3003]

vancouver i understand.. but how do you feel safe comfortable in mexico.. are you bilingual?

There are quite a few posts just in the Edmonton section about Mexico trips, and I imagine if you search the entire board you will find TONS of info. Good research in picking a safe location is key.

 

[quesoblanconorte]

Was in Cabo before Christmas 2023, went out every night, very safe, safer than downtown Edmonton. Near the resorts and cruise ships, police on every corner. Just don't be stupid and venture out of the protected area; no one can save you if you go into a dark alley. Use the police as your marker, when you stop seeing them at a corner….

….Bottomline, just use common sense, don't rent a car and drive through a jungle within cartel territory. As long as you stay near the resorts, perfectly safe.

100% agreed.

That advice about where to stop your wandering on foot also applies in cities like New Orleans.

Specific to Mexico, many folks buy into the idea of all of Mexico being a violent and lawless place. I have a bit more experience with the level of safety than most, because I’ve worked along the US side of the border and managed operations that extended into Mexico.

I won’t even pretend to speak to the current specifics since my information is 5+ years out of date, but the level of violence and who is truly in control varies wildly from state to state within Mexico, and also based on proximity to the US border.

If you’re in a place that meets the following criteria, you’ll be safe unless you do dumb things:

1. It is clear who is in charge (whether it’s Los Zetas or the Mexican Federal Government is immaterial). If who is in charge is contested in that area, don’t go there!

2. Your presence there (and what you’re doing) contributes to lining the pockets of those in charge. Nobody likes tourists….but the majority of people really like the cash they leave behind.

If you can accurately answer those two questions, you can know how safe you are. That doesn’t just apply to Mexico….it also applies to the work that I did in the Middle East, during the Arab Spring. Just don’t try to get a massage in the Middle East unless you’re in Dubai.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

100% agreed.

That advice about where to stop your wandering on foot also applies in cities like New Orleans.

Specific to Mexico, many folks buy into the idea of all of Mexico being a violent and lawless place. I have a bit more experience with the level of safety than most, because I’ve worked along the US side of the border and managed operations that extended into Mexico.

I won’t even pretend to speak to the current specifics since my information is 5+ years out of date, but the level of violence and who is truly in control varies wildly from state to state within Mexico, and also based on proximity to the US border.

If you’re in a place that meets the following criteria, you’ll be safe unless you do dumb things:

1. It is clear who is in charge (whether it’s Los Zetas or the Mexican Federal Government is immaterial). If who is in charge is contested in that area, don’t go there!

2. Your presence there (and what you’re doing) contributes to lining the pockets of those in charge. Nobody likes tourists….but the majority of people really like the cash they leave behind.

If you can accurately answer those two questions, you can know how safe you are. That doesn’t just apply to Mexico….it also applies to the work that I did in the Middle East, during the Arab Spring. Just don’t try to get a massage in the Middle East unless you’re in Dubai.

LOL, reverse draping?

 

[Qster]

Mexico/Vancouver were recent trips but I have also done trips to China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand; the best of all time was Cambodia with Vietnam being a close second. I want to head back but life changed, probably won't happen anymore. Lots of choices around the world to celebrate worthwhile events.

 

[sleeker]

Mexico/Vancouver were recent trips but I have also done trips to China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand; the best of all time was Cambodia with Vietnam being a close second. I want to head back but life changed, probably won't happen anymore. Lots of choices around the world to celebrate worthwhile events.

What's China like? I keep seeing social media posts about these super nice 24hr saunas that have unlimited food, fruit, gaming areas, movies, sauna areas split by gender, etc. Seems like there's no funny business because it's full of women patrons. Or is there a separate other level for the gentlemen fun too that you access by a secret wink to one of the staff?

 

[Qster]

What's China like? I keep seeing social media posts about these super nice 24hr saunas that have unlimited food, fruit, gaming areas, movies, sauna areas split by gender, etc. Seems like there's no funny business because it's full of women patrons. Or is there a separate other level for the gentlemen fun too that you access by a secret wink to one of the staff?

See my post here Spa experience. I am not a seasoned China pro but there is definitely gentlemen fun at some of the Chinese bathhouses. I had "hosts" guiding me when I was there, you probably need to do some research ahead of time if you don't have locals helping you.

I forgot to mention Macau; it is the ULTIMATE adult playground, unmatched anywhere else in the world; Vegas can't even come close. After a day of gambling, eating at Michelin Star restaurants, just take a short walk along the pedways and you have choices of Chinese, Filipinos, Vietnamese, Russians, Australians; hundreds of beauties to choose from. A simple hand gesture later and you have a companion for the night. Not cheap but it is fun to try.

To me, with the exception of Macau, China (including Hong Kong) is my least favourite place in Asia. While in Asia, you simply can't beat the warm friendly Cambodians or the petite cute Vietnameses. My two cents.

 

[sleeker]

See my post here Spa experience. I am not a seasoned China pro but there is definitely gentlemen fun at some of the Chinese bathhouses. I had "hosts" guiding me when I was there, you probably need to do some research ahead of time if you don't have locals helping you.

I forgot to mention Macau; it is the ULTIMATE adult playground, unmatched anywhere else in the world; Vegas can't even come close. After a day of gambling, eating at Michelin Star restaurants, just take a short walk along the pedways and you have choices of Chinese, Filipinos, Vietnamese, Russians, Australians; hundreds of beauties to choose from. A simple hand gesture later and you have a companion for the night. Not cheap but it is fun to try.

To me, with the exception of Macau, China (including Hong Kong) is my least favourite place in Asia. While in Asia, you simply can't beat the warm friendly Cambodians or the petite cute Vietnameses. My two cents.

Used to goto HK alot for work. I enjoyed the massages and it was accessible with sex141 website but definitely not as open as the Viet girls standing on the street and ushering you in. Maybe I'll check it out when I'm an old 70 year old man with nothing more going for me.

 

[OC64]

Used to goto HK alot for work. I enjoyed the massages and it was accessible with sex141 website but definitely not as open as the Viet girls standing on the street and ushering you in. Maybe I'll check it out when I'm an old 70 year old man with nothing more going for me.

Sundays in HK are amazing. A lot of the foreign workers in the country have that as their day off and would use the day to earn extra money freelancing.

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[Qster]

Sundays in HK are amazing. A lot of the foreign workers in the country have that as their day off and would use the day to earn extra money freelancing.

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A freelancer would be interesting, how do you find them. Sex141 and the 141buildings (i.e Fuji) don't quite do it for me. I will be passing through HK in April or May, may have to schedule a Sunday stayover.

 

[OC64]

A freelancer would be interesting, how do you find them. Sex141 and the 141buildings (i.e Fuji) don't quite do it for me. I will be passing through HK in April or May, may have to schedule a Sunday stayover.

We were just hanging out in a pub and they were there. Made a little small tall and a deal was struck. My hotel was just across the street so off we went. I think we were in the Kowloon area but would need to check some old travel details to confirm for sure.



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[dicktracy3003]

Damn. What business are you guys in and are there any openings?

 

[OC64]

Damn. What business are you guys in and are there any openings?

Haha. I spent a few years working in the middle east. Best part was how easy it was to travel. Relatively quick, inexpensive, and comfortable.

Made a couple boys trips to Hong Kong for sporting events. I was lucky to see a lot of other fun places too. During winter I always questions choice to move back to Edmonton full time

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[sleeker]

Damn. What business are you guys in and are there any openings?

Private equity/Finance. Probably if you are willing to bust your ass around the clock

 

[Mebad23]

100% agreed.

That advice about where to stop your wandering on foot also applies in cities like New Orleans.

Specific to Mexico, many folks buy into the idea of all of Mexico being a violent and lawless place. I have a bit more experience with the level of safety than most, because I’ve worked along the US side of the border and managed operations that extended into Mexico.

I won’t even pretend to speak to the current specifics since my information is 5+ years out of date, but the level of violence and who is truly in control varies wildly from state to state within Mexico, and also based on proximity to the US border.

If you’re in a place that meets the following criteria, you’ll be safe unless you do dumb things:

1. It is clear who is in charge (whether it’s Los Zetas or the Mexican Federal Government is immaterial). If who is in charge is contested in that area, don’t go there!

2. Your presence there (and what you’re doing) contributes to lining the pockets of those in charge. Nobody likes tourists….but the majority of people really like the cash they leave behind.

If you can accurately answer those two questions, you can know how safe you are. That doesn’t just apply to Mexico….it also applies to the work that I did in the Middle East, during the Arab Spring. Just don’t try to get a massage in the Middle East unless you’re in Dubai.

I have found exactly as you say. If you have no business there stay away.