Need Advice...Crush on MPA...?

[krayjee]

Yeah,, your only worry is running into some of her regulars at a family gathering or at a function..

 

[WizardofStyle]

Millions of people buy lottery tickets every day and never win a dime, but someone does win the jackpot, the big prize. Countless men have tried to put together some sort of relationship with an MPA outside the spa and watch it fail...but there are the rare cases where it does work.

Just so you understand the odds you face.

 

[luvdafurburger]

...
....Just make sure you have 2-3 girls in your hand all the time...

For them you can multiply those numbers by 5

 

[Deleted member 92532]

I’ll take the “I wouldn’t recommend it. Protect yourself and stop seeing her now” road.
Is it possible things can work out? Yeah. Have I heard of more stories where it hasn’t? Definitely.

Why are you attracted to her? Is it the attention? The happy ending? Is it because you can get what you want relatively easy from her (cause of money)? What does she offer besides that?

Hoping things work out, but I would say be extremely careful you aren’t “sucked dry” in a bad way.

 

[LuckyShot]

So...when I first started this hobby I swore to myself to not fall for any of the girls that I see and I have seen quite a few since I started. I created a thread awhile ago about conversion and how I would like to go down the rabbit hole and become friends with MPAs. I received numbers from girls but never acted or actually contacted them back or went back to see them again just cause the girls that actually offered me their number, I wasnt really too attracted to them, though they werent bad looking. So fast forward to now and a few weeks to a month ago I see this MPA (I wont name where I saw this girl or name the girl) but dam I think I have a crush on the girl... which I have seen now a hand full of times. Call me an idiot and say what you may but dam I feel what I feel, I know everyone is going to say that the women just want your money and all that which I dont disagree with but dam I am stumped here...

This MPA did offer their number to me the first time I visited them to visit them at another location that they work at but I guess I was in a hurry and didnt take down their number. Since the first visit they havent offered me their number or anything again. I guess Im just wondering and need some serious advice is there a chance to get her number and hang out outside her place of work? For some reason I get the butterflies around her and I dont know really how to proceed with this? Should I just ask her out right for her number and if she wants to grab some drinks or something sometime? I dont want to make this awkward for either of us either... Also a question for guys who get the girls number just to see them again or at another location, is everything you talk about just transactional and all business?

MPA's offering you their number is a common thing so they can book appointments on their own or keep in touch if they think you're a good client to make it seem more personal like they care but in reality these hoes just want your money they know what they're doing and even though she may 'like' you trust me bro you're probably the 3rd or 4th guy she's given her number to just that day alone

 

[Dv8]

OP, good luck! It seems like your already smitten, talking about butterflies and such. Haha. I prefer to keep these relationships transactional. It's money exchanged for services rendered and I want to keep it that way. There is an advantage to knowing exactly what is being offered on both sides of the equation. But hey, you seem young, and why not fall in love, have a fun time! I myself learned every lesson in life the hard way. Those lessons have a deeper weight to them.

 

[MalikFarush]

Let me tell you a few stories:

Hoe 1 - Offers number first visit cause she does Indy work. Half this board has her number. You are not special.

Hoe 2 - we both caught feels offers me her digits … we chat … she gets scared of the feels cuts things off … visit her post pandemic … “yeah I just got a house and I guess if things lockdown I can see clients there” … lol so all the regulars have her number. You are not special

Hoe 3 - “just message me” cause she’s on vacation “maybe I can tease you while I’m off” …”how?” “I gave you my number!” “No you didn’t” … she gives her number out so freely she forgets who she’s given it to. You are not special.

Hoe 4 - offers number up after a few visits. Rarely responds. But “I really like you” and always says “oh text me” and “agency knows I like you” … she randomly took one day off recently … saw her on her next shift and she goes “oh I took the day off and they didn’t update the schedule. I woke up to all these texts and calls asking me where I was”. SEVERAL clients have her number. You are not special.

What I’m trying to say here is. Don’t catch feels. See multiple hoes. You aren’t special. When the feels eventually die out she’ll be doing it with someone else.

I’ll take Hoe 5 for $100, Alex

 

[cupcrazy]

I think you would be surprised...

the ones i met are reluctant.

May be you haven't met the right girl who can sway your mind yet. Is your girl from semi legit spa? If so go try out Minnie at Just Relax and see how deep your love was for your girl. Trust me, there are some really special girls who can just swept you away with their charm. I am really scared to see her often. She's so addictive and you can get into trouble easily. All her customers are repeat customers and seeing her every week , most of them 90 minutes to 2 hrs just to be with her. She is the most dangerous type of girl in this business to see if you have a soft heart.

How does Minnie lure her men?

 

[extos]

Most guys on this thread get it. Nothing good will come out of this. Even if she shows interest in you, you have no idea whether it's a sincere feeling or a pretence to empty your wallet. Some MPAs are that good.

I have a feeling this question gets asked a lot because modern dating is completely fucked at the moment, especially if you're an average guy, so some guys turn to spa girls for their relationship needs. If you're looking for an emotional connection or a relationship, you have to look elsewhere.

 

[M48to23]

If you're looking for an emotional connection or a relationship, you have to look elsewhere.

Exactly. Never ever try to form a true and deep emotional connection with MPAs at the end of the day it is their job to make you feel like you’re special. Hence if you do feel that way it means that she’s doing her job well. If you want something meaningful find a gf. As far as MPs go be kind, have fun and keep it transactional.

 

[Abyss]

May be you haven't met the right girl who can sway your mind yet. Is your girl from semi legit spa? If so go try out Minnie at Just Relax and see how deep your love was for your girl. Trust me, there are some really special girls who can just swept you away with their charm. I am really scared to see her often. She's so addictive and you can get into trouble easily. All her customers are repeat customers and seeing her every week , most of them 90 minutes to 2 hrs just to be with her. She is the most dangerous type of girl in this business to see if you have a soft heart.

Sorry, dont really want to say if shes from a semi or not just so it doesnt narrow it down to who it is. But maybe I will stop by and give Minnie a try sometime next week if I get the chance.

 

[Abyss]

I’ll take the “I wouldn’t recommend it. Protect yourself and stop seeing her now” road.
Is it possible things can work out? Yeah. Have I heard of more stories where it hasn’t? Definitely.

Why are you attracted to her? Is it the attention? The happy ending? Is it because you can get what you want relatively easy from her (cause of money)? What does she offer besides that?

Hoping things work out, but I would say be extremely careful you aren’t “sucked dry” in a bad way.

I honestly cant pin point a reason why im so attracted to her, sure there are hotter, more beautiful and sexier women out there and I have seen them and have enjoyed my time with them. Maybe it is the attention and maybe its cuz we have so much in common that I really like her. Iv had alot better endings, not saying hers are bad but I was more attentive to what she had to say than the actual ending and I guess I was even looking at her eyes more than any other part of her body, maybe its her eyes that I find really attractive? I honestly dont want much from her and I dont see it as just cuz I have money I could get her to do anything.

Let me tell you a few stories:

Hoe 1 - Offers number first visit cause she does Indy work. Half this board has her number. You are not special.

Hoe 2 - we both caught feels offers me her digits … we chat … she gets scared of the feels cuts things off … visit her post pandemic … “yeah I just got a house and I guess if things lockdown I can see clients there” … lol so all the regulars have her number. You are not special

Hoe 3 - “just message me” cause she’s on vacation “maybe I can tease you while I’m off” …”how?” “I gave you my number!” “No you didn’t” … she gives her number out so freely she forgets who she’s given it to. You are not special.

Hoe 4 - offers number up after a few visits. Rarely responds. But “I really like you” and always says “oh text me” and “agency knows I like you” … she randomly took one day off recently … saw her on her next shift and she goes “oh I took the day off and they didn’t update the schedule. I woke up to all these texts and calls asking me where I was”. SEVERAL clients have her number. You are not special.

What I’m trying to say here is. Don’t catch feels. See multiple hoes. You aren’t special. When the feels eventually die out she’ll be doing it with someone else.

OP, good luck! It seems like your already smitten, talking about butterflies and such. Haha. I prefer to keep these relationships transactional. It's money exchanged for services rendered and I want to keep it that way. There is an advantage to knowing exactly what is being offered on both sides of the equation. But hey, you seem young, and why not fall in love, have a fun time! I myself learned every lesson in life the hard way. Those lessons have a deeper weight to them.

I hear what everyone has been saying but it looks like I will have to learn the hard way... You never truly learn I guess until its the hard way lol...

 

[Abyss]

Most guys on this thread get it. Nothing good will come out of this. Even if she shows interest in you, you have no idea whether it's a sincere feeling or a pretence to empty your wallet. Some MPAs are that good.

I have a feeling this question gets asked a lot because modern dating is completely fucked at the moment, especially if you're an average guy, so some guys turn to spa girls for their relationship needs. If you're looking for an emotional connection or a relationship, you have to look elsewhere.

Exactly. Never ever try to form a true and deep emotional connection with MPAs at the end of the day it is their job to make you feel like you’re special. Hence if you do feel that way it means that she’s doing her job well. If you want something meaningful find a gf. As far as MPs go be kind, have fun and keep it transactional.

I have been on dating apps and in all honesty and its a shit show with how the apps and some girls are now... I have uninstalled all the apps at this point. The apps are fun for some hook ups here and there but the effort and repetitiveness is draining. And its funny you mentioned dating as when I was on the apps I went on a few dates with this one girl and we got to talking and everything and she came out and told me she was an escort, I was alittle shocked when she told me and now I guess I have this idea in my head is it any different from dating an MPA? If this girl didnt tell me she was an escort I would have never known. I guess the difference here is I actually know that this MPA I like is indeed an MPA...maybe my emotions are messing with me right now...

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

I honestly cant pin point a reason why im so attracted to her, sure there are hotter, more beautiful and sexier women out there and I have seen them and have enjoyed my time with them. Maybe it is the attention and maybe its cuz we have so much in common that I really like her. Iv had alot better endings, not saying hers are bad but I was more attentive to what she had to say than the actual ending and I guess I was even looking at her eyes more than any other part of her body, maybe its her eyes that I find really attractive? I honestly dont want much from her and I dont see it as just cuz I have money I could get her to do anything.





I hear what everyone has been saying but it looks like I will have to learn the hard way... You never truly learn I guess until its the hard way lol...

How you're feeling, though unadvisable, is human nature and completely understandable. Learning when to turn it on and off is a skill that's learned overtime. If you're willing to learn the hard way, more power to you but I suggest you avoid it while you can. Treat it like the fantasy it is when you're with her. Have all these funny feelings Inside of you but remember to switch it off when your time together is over.

Trust me. I can relate. I'm on the same boat currently. During our last session, my fave suggested we take the fantasy outside the spa and into a hotel room. Though I've personally preferred the spa for the easy booking and relative discretion, I just realized with this woman, that setting wouldn't cut it anymore. As each session has progressively gotten longer, we both agreed that no length of time would suffice anymore. Too many rules enforced by a manager who's running a tight ship along with multiple clients wanting to see the same girl just take away from what should be a laid back experience. I look forward to it next week.

I hope your experience will be fruitful. Let us know how it goes if you push through. Cheers!

 

[Deleted member 92532]

I honestly cant pin point a reason why im so attracted to her, sure there are hotter, more beautiful and sexier women out there and I have seen them and have enjoyed my time with them. Maybe it is the attention and maybe its cuz we have so much in common that I really like her. Iv had alot better endings, not saying hers are bad but I was more attentive to what she had to say than the actual ending and I guess I was even looking at her eyes more than any other part of her body, maybe its her eyes that I find really attractive? I honestly dont want much from her and I dont see it as just cuz I have money I could get her to do anything.

Sometimes the best lessons learned are the hard ones. I will say though “at least protect yourself financially”. You may get hurt emotionally (and some might say that’s worse than financially), but don’t say none of us warned you about the financial damages that can come with this sort of relationship.

 

[Abyss]

How you're feeling, though unadvisable, is human nature and completely understandable. Learning when to turn it on and off is a skill that's learned overtime. If you're willing to learn the hard way, more power to you but I suggest you avoid it while you can. Treat it like the fantasy it is when you're with her. Have all these funny feelings Inside of you but remember to switch it off when your time together is over.

Trust me. I can relate. I'm on the same boat currently. During our last session, my fave suggested we take the fantasy outside the spa and into a hotel room. Though I've personally preferred the spa for the easy booking and relative discretion, I just realized with this woman, that setting wouldn't cut it anymore. As each session has progressively gotten longer, we both agreed that no length of time would suffice anymore. Too many rules enforced by a manager who's running a tight ship along with multiple clients wanting to see the same girl just take away from what should be a laid back experience. I look forward to it next week.

I hope your experience will be fruitful. Let us know how it goes if you push through. Cheers!

That is a lot easier said that done lol, that switch you mention to turn off for me is really hard in general and especially for this girl for some reason.
I am happy for you that you are forming a stronger relationship with this woman and I hope you enjoy your time with her next week .

Thanks! I will see what will happen when I see her next and maybe provide an update.

Sometimes the best lessons learned are the hard ones. I will say though “at least protect yourself financially”. You may get hurt emotionally (and some might say that’s worse than financially), but don’t say none of us warned you about the financial damages that can come with this sort of relationship.

I wont blame anyone but myself if this ends poorly and I am grateful for everyone sharing their experiences, it gives me a bigger perspective in a way.

Yeah, modern dating is so fucked right now. Better for you to find out early than later right?

It's not the same as it was in the 90s and early 2000s like someone said.

In my buddy's case that I mentioned earlier in this thread, it was she who asked for his number and she reached out to him instead. They didn't trade real names until weeks after into talking on the phone. Hint that you want her to ask for your number instead and see what happens, maybe that's how you can see if there's a genuine connection or not.

Lol I dont know if she will ask for my number, the first time I went to visit her she offered me hers but I think thats as far as itll get....

 

[krayjee]

Sorry, dont really want to say if shes from a semi or not just so it doesnt narrow it down to who it is. But maybe I will stop by and give Minnie a try sometime next week if I get the chance.

Minnie is working today. Go see her. She can make you forget about your girl but make sure you don't fall in love again with this one. Booking is a must. She got booked up pretty fast.

 

[Abyss]

Minnie is working today. Go see her. She can make you forget about your girl but make sure you don't fall in love again with this one. Booking is a must. She got booked up pretty fast.

Won't be able to make it out today and also not really in the mood :/. Does she only work on Saturdays?

 

[kittyhound69]

Brother. Stick your dick into another Asian spinner. You will forget the other girl fast , we all love them when we are fxing them . U need the (when I cum, I want to get the f out of there gene. ) lol
Good luck my friend, her job is to seduce

 

[krayjee]

I say most Asian mpas will not.meet you outside of the spa.

yeah.. I believe you. You are talking from your experience..lol

Won't be able to make it out today and also not really in the mood :/. Does she only work on Saturdays?

She works Saturdays, Sundays and Mondays. Booking ahead is a must. She is already booked up for today since 2 pm. Only one 9pm spot left open.